Man are from Mars & woman from Venus
May 21st, 2008 by angahlyzz" Man are from Mars & Woman from Venus"
One day…mase bosan gile xtau nk buat ape kan…lepak2 la kat MPH. Biase…tmpt spot yg aku akan pegi mesti lah area motivasi book. Suke giler.. Yelah, kalau nk bace novel, sure mcm x sempat nk abis. Then, aku ni type yg x suke bc novel sket2..kalau bleh..mesti nak terus bace sampai habis at one shot. Mestilah kan..bc novel mesti nk feeling2. Hehe..WAJIB tuh!!
Many type of buku motivasi la..tp aku ske anytype pon. Kdg2 layan la motivasi ttg diri ke, ttg kerjaya, ttg cinta, relationship n etc. So, yg sebenarnye nk share pasal one of the motivation book yg aku pnh bace n aku suke giler. Nak beli buku tu…tp tak terbeli jugak. hak hak hak…selalu bace free j kat kedai buku. Title buku tu " Man are from Mars & Woman from Venus". Kat dlm buku tu die cerita lah pasal betapa sang lelaki n sang perempuan ni berbeza kan. Maklum lah..kedua2 nye come from diff plenet kan. Kat dlm buku ni jgk die cerite lah..konon2 nye mase mule2 Mars & Venus ni bercinta, derang mendapat tentangan hebat dr penduduk plenet memasing. Tp cinta punye pasal…dua2 ni pon membawa diri ke plenet bumi utk meneruskan life bersama2. Mase tu, even derang tau derang ni berbeza..tp, perbezaan tu yg mengukuhkan lagi cinta derang..lebih2 lagi when they realised yg derang ni saling melengkapi each other. & perbezaan2 tu sme makes their life colourful. Cheyy!!
Pastu..after 2-3 years,derang rs mcm tension lak dgn "perangai" memasing. rs cam x leh cope dgn perbezaan2 especially in the attitude aspect. Like for eg: Mars ni selalu x kisah kalau rumah bersepah, but for Venus it does matter. Sbb org2 kat plenet Venus amat mementingkan kekemasan ni. And other example is how Mars people face with problem are totally diff like Venus do. Mcm penduduk Venus ni..derang ske share their probs with sumone especially the one that closed to them. X kisah la..even prob tu kecik besar kuman pon. For Mars plk, they rather keep the prob themselves than sharing it with others. And at the same time they tried to solved it with their own way..Konon2 nye, kat penet Mars, org2 kat situ…bile ade probs, derang akan masuk dlm gua derang. Dok sengsorang dlm gua tuh..until they feel better. So, that y la mase kat bumi sang Mars suke simpan prob sorang2, unlike Venus. Then, small2 things like this la kekadang makes the r/ship become harder n harder… So, buku ni pon elaborate lah..the do’s and dont’s for both Venus & Mars in order for them to sustain in the r/ship. Beside…buku ni cerita pasal what is the expectation of Mars people towards Venus. What they want from Venus, what they dont want. Ape yg kite patut buat…ape yg kite x patut buat..bla bla. Interesting right?? For me..its really interesting la. At least, we get to know our frens, brother, lovers, n even our dad better.Then, bile ade kes kecik2..kite leh maafkan owg tu with open heart sbb kite tau that we r coming from different plenet. Sweet kan??
Bukan ape…selalu dengar cerita dari kawan2 yg dah pon masuk ke alam rumahtangga. Cerita pasal yg x best2 lah..especially pasal husband derang yg kedekut lah.Or maybi ’bout husband derang yg bukan kedekut..tp wat tak kesah jer psl hal2 rumahtangga especially in economi side lah. Macam x pernah nk amik kisah pasal pampers anak2. Da abis ke..jenama ape..even dont know the size. Tu belom lagi pasal susu anak. Mentang2 lah wife derang ni berkerjaya n ade duit sdr kan. Or..maybi, husband derang tu terlupe kot yg derang ni da bertukar status menjadi "laki org" sbb selalu sgt hang out or lepak2 kat kedai kopi layan bola n WWF mlm2. Pastu tinggal la isteri tu kat umah sengsorang. 2-3 bulan ok la kot..lame2 boleh naik sawan gak. Hmm..ade gak yg mengadu pasal wife die yg suke sgt berleter..or suke sangat merajuk. Ade jer mende yg x kena. Setakat nk soh beli pampers n susu anak pon nk membebel sampai berbakul2. Mase sblm kawen..kemain lembut n manje lagi suara.Now..da mcm petir!! Buzzz!!!! Haha.. Dulu mase bercinta rajin ler nk pujuk kan..tp da kawen n beranak pinak ni, Naik meluat da dgn perangai si isteri..at the end, malas nk dok kat umah. Alasan..nnt gado besar lak jadi nye. At the end,mlm2..rodger mmbr2, lepak mapley la. Pe lagik?? Yg tu baru prob kecik jer..ade lagi yg lebey besar. Mcm kehadiran org ketiga, husband having affairs wif other gal, mak mertua or jiran2 yg suke menyibuk..atau register jadi "batu api" utk rumahtangga korang n many more.
Then..kalau tgk situasi kat atas ni, dua2 pon x salah. Tp tetap bermasalah..Cume 1 way nk solved this..both side kene really understand their own responsiblity, tp bukan setakat paham jer..kene la buat. Lepas tu..bile buat kene la ikhlas. Then..bile da paham, buat n ikhlas, tp stil not working..kat sini kene la tolak ansur. Sbb perangai or attitude ni bukan leh ubah sekelip mate jer. Yg penting, ade rase utk berubah n ade usaha utk memperbaiki kesilapan2 tu. Hmm..part ni lah paling susah kan.Sbb selalu2 nye…sape2 lah termasuk lah org yg tulis ni. hehe..kite sume x sedar yg kite ni ade wat silap.Bile xde kesedaran…camne nk paham, buat n ikhlas tu kan..Hahaaha…complicated tol life ni kan..
Tu lah, life ni is a journey yg panjang. Ataupon life ni mcm having a black box( kotak itam)..yg kite sume x tau ape kat dalamnye. Yg penting is not what inside it. Tp..yg paaaaaliiing penting is " how u accept what inside it". So, belajar la terima ape2 pon yg kite ade kat dunia ni dgn hati yg penuh syukur..x kisah lah husband or wife kite tu mcm mane kan. At least korang ade gak seseorang yg bernama husband/wife.Mcm aku ni..sorang2. Tp aku tetap syukur. Maybi my "Mr. Right" belum turun dr plenet marikh lagi kot. X pon..die carik aku kat Venus.. Ekekeke..
Till then, next time we story mory lagi lah ye. Daa..